AI has taken over, and it is becoming more difficult and also easy to bill clients with the dating format. In this post, I will show you how to use the advance billing format for dating, and get your clients to pay you.
There are many things now involved with the dating format, this is simply because many clients won’t trust you any more, or joining dating platforms now has become difficult.
Based on what has worked for me, I will share some ideas that can help you, and also give you a strategy that works.
Find a Dating Platform
This is a must because you will need somewhere to get your clients from. I recommend dating platforms with VPN, so that you can see quality clients.
If you don’t have a VPN, you can use a website like Bumble. They allow you to set your location in travel, and you can choose any location you like.
Put Up Enticing Pictures/Mystery Pictures
If you want to get interests from people, you can put up some enticing pictures. If you are a woman, your pictures should be faceless, show thighs and legs. That way, it creates interest and make men want to see more.
For a guy, you can find a sexy guy and show pictures of his chest, abs, and other images.
Set Your Preferred Location
For me I set location in the United State, and set the age to show from 55 – 70 years. That way, I can find women who has a lot of money, and can sponsor me.
Start Texting Your Clients
The next stage in the dating billing format is to start texting your clients. There are several ways, but you have to take it slow. Create very simple openers, so that you don’t look like a fraud.
Create genuine connection and make sure that they flow with you in the proper way. After this, you can use the billing formats for dating below, and progress the conversation.
Dating Billing Format – Introduction
“Hey there! I’ll be honest – I’ve been on here for a while hoping to meet someone who’s genuinely looking for something real, not just another casual conversation that fizzles out. When I came across your profile, something just clicked. There’s this authentic energy that comes through in your photos and the way you’ve written about yourself that makes me think you’re someone who truly values meaningful connections.
What really draws me to you is that you seem like the type of person who’s both dependable and adventurous – which is honestly a rare combination. I get the sense that you’re someone who would be completely loyal and committed in a relationship, the kind of partner who actually shows up and stays through the ups and downs. But at the same time, there’s something in your eyes and the way you carry yourself that tells me you’d keep things exciting and never let a relationship get boring or stagnant.
I’m at a point in my life where I’m ready to build something substantial with the right person – not just dating for the sake of it, but actually working toward a future together. I want someone who’s going to be my best friend, my adventure buddy, and my safe place all rolled into one. From what I can tell about you, I have a feeling we might be looking for similar things.
I’d love to grab coffee or drinks sometime and see if this connection translates to real life. What do you think? And in the meantime, I’m curious – what’s something you’re passionate about that most people wouldn’t guess just from looking at your photos?”
Dating Format – Questions
Ice Breaker Questions (First Messages)
- “What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve done recently that you’re proud of?”
- “If you could have dinner with anyone, living or dead, who would it be and what would you want to ask them?”
- “What’s something you’ve learned about yourself in the past year that surprised you?”
- “What’s your go-to activity when you need to recharge after a stressful week?”
- “If you had to describe your ideal weekend using only three words, what would they be?”
Getting to Know You Questions (Early Conversations)
- “What’s a hobby or interest you have that people might not expect based on first impressions?”
- “Tell me about a place you’ve traveled to that completely changed your perspective on something.”
- “What’s a childhood memory that still makes you smile when you think about it?”
- “If you could master any skill instantly, what would it be and how would you use it?”
- “What’s something you’re genuinely excited about right now in your life?”
- “Do you have any traditions or rituals that are important to you? What makes them special?”
- “What’s the best advice someone has ever given you, and did you actually follow it?”
Values and Lifestyle Questions (Building Connection)
- “What does loyalty mean to you in a relationship? Can you give me an example?”
- “How do you handle conflict or disagreements with people you care about?”
- “What role does family play in your life, and how important is it that a partner gets along with them?”
- “What are some non-negotiables for you in a long-term relationship?”
- “How do you like to show affection and how do you prefer to receive it?”
- “What does a typical Tuesday night look like for you? I’m curious about your everyday routine.”
- “Do you prefer to plan things out or be spontaneous? How do you balance both?”
- “What’s something you’re working on improving about yourself right now?”
Future and Goals Questions (Deeper Connection)
- “Where do you see yourself in five years, both personally and professionally?”
- “What kind of legacy do you want to leave behind?”
- “If we were together a year from now, what kind of adventures would you want us to have?”
- “What does ‘settling down’ mean to you? What would that look like?”
- “How important is it to you that your partner shares your career ambitions vs. supports them?”
- “What’s your biggest dream that you haven’t told many people about?”
- “How do you envision balancing independence and togetherness in a relationship?”
Fun and Personality Questions (Keeping Things Light)
- “What’s your most controversial food opinion?”
- “If you could only watch one genre of movies for the rest of your life, what would it be?”
- “What’s something that always makes you laugh, even on your worst days?”
- “Do you have any weird talents or party tricks I should know about?”
- “What’s the strangest compliment you’ve ever received?”
- “If you had to choose a theme song for your life, what would it be?”
- “What’s your biggest pet peeve, and what’s something that others find annoying but doesn’t bother you at all?”
Relationship History Questions (When Things Get Serious)
- “What’s the most important thing you learned from your last relationship?”
- “Have you ever had your heart broken? How did you grow from that experience?”
- “What’s something you used to think was important in a partner that you now realize isn’t?”
- “What does emotional intimacy look like to you?”
- “How do you know when you’re ready to fully commit to someone?”
- “What’s your love language, and how did you figure that out?”
Compatibility Test Questions (Assessing Long-term Potential)
- “How do you handle stress, and what kind of support do you need from a partner during tough times?”
- “What’s your relationship with money like? Are you a saver, spender, or somewhere in between?”
- “How important is it that we have similar social circles vs. maintaining some separate friendships?”
- “What role does physical affection play in feeling connected to someone?”
- “How do you feel about compromise? Can you give me an example of a time you compromised on something important?”
- “What would you do if we disagreed on something major, like where to live or career decisions?”
Conversation Flow Tips:
- Ask follow-up questions based on their answers
- Share your own response after they answer
- Mix deep questions with lighter ones to maintain balance
- Pay attention to their energy – if they seem uncomfortable, pivot to something lighter
Use their answers to ask more specific questions about things they mention
Remember to make the conversation feel natural rather than like an interview. Let their responses guide where the conversation goes next!
Dating Format for Asking for Number
Here are several natural ways to ask for their phone number, depending on your conversation style and comfort level:
Direct but Casual Approaches
- “I’m really enjoying our conversation! Would you be comfortable exchanging numbers so we can text more easily?”
- “I’d love to continue this chat over text if you’re up for it. Mind if I get your number?”
- “This app can be a bit clunky sometimes – want to move our conversation to texting?”
Suggesting a Specific Reason
- “I’d love to send you some photos from [something you discussed] – would you be okay with exchanging numbers?”
- “If you’re free this weekend for that coffee we talked about, it might be easier to coordinate over text. What’s your number?”
- “I saw this [article/meme/thing related to your conversation] that made me think of you – can I text it to you?”
Playful/Flirty Approaches
- “I have a feeling our conversations are only going to get better. Ready to graduate to texting?”
- “Fair warning: I’m much funnier over text. Want to test that theory? 😉”
- “I promise I’m not a serial texter… okay, that’s a lie. But I’d love your number anyway!”
More Confident/Straightforward
- “I’d like to take you out this weekend. What’s your number so I can call and we can figure out the details?”
- “Let’s move this conversation somewhere more personal. Can I get your number?”
- “I want to hear your voice – would you be up for a phone call later? What’s your number?”
Dating Format for Billing
Hey love ❤️
I’ve been going back and forth about whether to say something, but I’ve decided to just be open with you because I trust you completely and value how honest we are with each other.
Right now, I’m in a temporary financial pinch. I have a few business deals in the works that I’m confident will come through soon — I’ve been putting in the work and things are moving in the right direction. But as it stands, I’ve hit a gap between where I am and where I need to be, and it’s putting pressure on a few things I can’t put off.
I wouldn’t be asking if it wasn’t important or if I didn’t truly believe things are about to shift in a positive direction. I’m reaching out because I really need some help to bridge this moment. Would you be able to support me with [insert amount] for now?
I want you to know that this isn’t just me depending on you without a plan — I have a clear picture of how I’ll pay you back, and I’m committed to doing that as soon as these deals close. I’m not taking your kindness for granted at all. I know you have your own things to manage, so I completely understand if it’s not possible — but it would honestly mean a lot to me, and take a huge weight off my shoulders if you can.
Thank you for even considering it. You’ve always supported me in more ways than just financial, and I don’t take any of that lightly. I love and appreciate you deeply, and I’ll keep you updated every step of the way. 💛
You can use all these dating formats and adjust them to suit your needs.
